Loneliness………

A curse or a blessing…?????????

                           --------Dechamma B.C

As the lines of the song goes…..Lonely... I am so lonely! …. I have nobody…. I am on my own………      depicts melody in silence but the depth of this song reaches the abyss and beyond…

This subject though looks tangential but is highly debatable. When the word “lonely “is used it gives a strong feeling of “only you”…. Or “lone only”. Usually this word is used in exhibiting negative emotions as if a person has lost everything in this world. But a deep inquiry into this word reveals a very amazing concept. The concept what I think about is ‘lone only” or “only you  “or only u can do it. It glorifies the strength within. Everything in this world has two sides of view, the brighter side and the darker side. It depends on us as to which side we want to see. The brighter side is always positive. Power lies in positivity; vision paves way for the thoughts of a person. But we should also be literate about the darker side of things as it helps us to be aware of the loopholes while moving forward in life.

Here I would like to highlight upon the positive side of this ‘loneliness’. Loneliness teaches life. Whom to believe, who is truly yours, whom you can trust and the most important of all it help you realize and understand yourself. It makes you strong, independent and formulates you to confront any situation bravely in life. It truly helps in coming in terms with someone called “you”. You will begin to understand your strengths, weakness and your hidden talents.

Initially loneliness can be very depressing, but as days pass-by you will realize the importance of it….and will also understand the reason why loneliness has crept into your life. It comes into one’s life only for two reasons; either to teach u something or to realize something in life. It is just that it teaches life in a hard way. It makes you strong at the Armageddon.

If you ask me about loneliness I would say it is a gift and the best teacher ever a person can have, but we have to be strong enough to take it, as it teaches us the hard way and the straightway…which says something like life is not a bed of roses…….so it is a blessing in disguise..

A person who has conquered loneliness can conquer anything in this world.

An individual’s biggest strengths are discovered in loneliness…..Believe it or not!!